2008 Renegade Lights stay on

I have a 2008 Renegade 800R Rev XP that all the lights stay on after shut down for maybe an hour. Pull out the fuse, or the relay and immediately plug it back in and the lights will stay out, until it is started, then the same thing. I have worked on a newer sled that has 2 relays, but I can only find one. The wiring diagrams I have seen are also showing one. I have searched other posts and they have said to find the trigger wire and trace it back. That would work, but none of the wiring diagrams show the correct color combinations leading to this relay I found, roughly in the middle of the sled below the handlebars. I have swapped out the relay with 2 different ones with no change. Obviously the trigger wire, whichever one it is, is holding the voltage and keeping the relay closed. I have red/o, on pin 86, another red/o, on pin 30, red/w, on pin 87, orange/w, on pin 85

2008 Renegade Lights stay on